As a minister I am frequently asked questions about religion--be it of a theological, biblical or ethical nature...and I love it! I love meeting people on the pavement and dealing with their curiosities or personal dilemmas.
I like it too that people seek informed, Scriptural guidance. I'll admit, I find it hard not to vomit when I see a "Dear Abby" column. She and her contemporary knock-offs typically base their advice on their flimsy humanistic whims. What people really need is solid application of God's unfailing word.
So feel free to ask. You don't have to worry about confidentiality. I'll keep a lid on it if that's what you want.
However, your question may benefit others. If you grant me permission, I may take the opportunity to post it to my blog and give it some broader exposure (with continued discretion as to confidentiality, of course).